Love Marriage Problems and its Solutions

 Love is a feeling that is hard to put into words. It is something that can only be felt. There is no better feeling than marrying someone you love. 

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Being a life coach, I have helped many couples by resolving conflicts and helping them start a new life.

Not only this, one of the biggest issues that I have to address is love marriage problems.

There is no doubt in it that even today many families are rigid when it comes to the idea of love marriage.

The kind of problems and concerns people show over love marriages amuse me. Last year, a couple visited me for premarital counselling.

They were in a relationship for the past 8 years and wanted to get married. As they reached the age of 27, their parents started looking for a suitable match for them. In this situation, they had no choice left but to tell their respective families about each other.

They were highly happy and content in living with each other, but the only problem was that they belonged to different castes.

In India, many small cities still avoid the idea of intercaste marriages. It is not acceptable for them to marry someone of a different caste.

The boy’s father clearly told him that they won’t ever accept the girl as a part of their family. Not only the guy, but even the girl’s family had problems with the marriage.

The guy even started getting death threats from anonymous people over calls. They were completely shattered by the way their families were treating them.

It was during this time that they visited me. I was surprised by the series of events, but I had seen many such cases already.

I asked them to bring their families to visit me. I wanted to take them into confidence so that they accept them as a couple.

We even found a relative close to both sides who could help us in convincing the families. Today, they are happily married with two kids and the girl is living with the boy’s family. 

This is how premarital counselling can help you and your partner in leading a happily married life.

What are love marriage problems?

Marriage is a sacred bond that depicts the union of not only the two individuals but their respective families. A marriage is never complete with the relationship of two people, it needs to involve family.

Many times it is seen that some parents have a lot more say in who their child should marry. Arranged marriages are still a preferred choice for most families.

An arranged marriage is by keeping a check on the caste of both families. It is also believed that inter-caste marriages lead to many difficulties and challenges in relationships as compared to an arranged marriage.